VS IMO opinion is a beast of its own. I've never found one that was quite like it, but admittedly I haven't used a whole pile of other IDE's either. The only ones I can think of off hand are VS, Eclipse, Dr. Java, and Komodo. Oh netbeans in there somewhere too.
Of them, I find eclipse to be the best. I use it for both my Java and my PHP writing. It does not feel at all like VS to me.
I don't remember a lot of these IDE's and who knows how much they've changed, but Dr. Java reminded me of a beefed up notepad++, and one of Komodo or netbeans reminded me of a less stable VS. I can't recall which as I've only briefly used either. Personally I do not like the VS IDE, so I've stuck with my eclipse.