Didn't I already reply to you? The mobile version of safari can only support an external media player, so they only way to play the file is by clicking (or "tapping") and loading it into the default media player. Now, if you want to come up with some add-on for jailbroken phones, by all means do. I'd love to have it. But until then, this is the only code that works:
Code:
<!-- Didn't you get this the first time? -->
<embed src="../notify.wav" autostart="true" width="0" height="0" />
<noembed>
You're on iPhone! Click here to play the sound:
<A HREF="../notify.wav">NOTIFY!</A>
</noembed>