i think i got it using iframe, it seems to work. heres what i was doing:
i added my form code to someones template, but there server doesnt use smtp right and it configured way wacked. So Open Captcha wouldnt work, neither would sending the form through smtp. What I was trying to accomplish was to use her contact form using her template, hosted on my website. And she could go to her website and open the contact.html page, which would load everything from my website, and still show her domain in the address bar. It works using Iframe. Nothing "nefarious" and im not trying to pull something, just trying to help someone out whos server is ____ until she can get a new one.