Flash Action Script 3 is verry simalar to Javascript
AJAX Basicly opens a Page without showing it no the Stages you can do is
Now Ajax has 3 main stages for you as a coder
1st, Connection to Page if you want to pass data to the page the easy way is to use $_GET[] so phpage.php?value1=value1
2nd is Waiting for the page ti send ready state so once php has done what it is supposed to
3rd Handle to Returned value
The Returned Value is any thing that is out putted i have once made a list that i seperateed using | then just do in javascript what you want to do with the value that is returned but to learn it
http://www.w3schools.com has some good tuts on how to implement AJAX