Good for you. However, so far you have only been a member for a few days and made five posts, and you’re just complaining about things. If you feel limited here then feel free to go wherever you want. After all, nobody is forcing you to be here.
There are many female members in this forum that are all OK with the way things work here. What’s so important about having an avatar? Programming/coding is not primarily meant to express emotions but to get a job done – or well, now that I think about it, maybe this is indeed kind of a male approach. So, I’d be very interested in your go at creating a “feminine” programming language. You could start by recompiling PHP into a feminine version similar to the approach on If PHP were British
But for now and as long as you’re here be patient and contribute and you shall receive the privilege to have an avatar.