It looks to me like you can just remove that entire 'onLoad' section. You can see that the last thing it does is call t.tabShow() with the cookie-remember tab number, so presumably removing it will eliminate tabbing to the prior tab.
That is, remove this code:
Code:
'onLoad': function(argsObj) {
var t = argsObj.tabber;
var i;
if (t.id) {
t.cookie = t.id + t.cookie;
}
i = parseInt(getCookie(t.cookie));
if (isNaN(i)) {
return;
}
t.tabShow(i);
},
Give it a shot, at least.