I don't get into discussions about who people really are in forums because even someone with an IQ equal to their shoe size should be able to see that anyone can pretend to be anyone they like in forums if they wanted to. For instance, about 3 weeks ago now, I was talking to a Phillip M about their drug and child abuse issues. I don't suspect it was you I was talking to, but it may very well have been for all I know. I don't know for sure or care one way or the other.
Surely it is extremely obvious that anyone can register as Philip M, webdev1958 or any other username they see somewhere on any website where the username is not already registered and then proceed to say what they like or pretend to be whoever they like.