I have created a webpage using wordpress for a customer, he wants an embedded video to be played every time a visitor comes to the websites. i did it in the beginning with you tube and it was easy but he is hosting his videos in a lame company and no matter what i try, i am not able to make the video play on load, guys can you please help me with this. here is an example of embed code from that website

<object id="player" width="550" height="380" classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" ><param name="movie" value="http://www.videozer.com/embed/RLyPu" ></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" ></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.videozer.com/embed/RLyPu" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="550" height="380"></embed></object>