Hey all....

I am being asked to embed a background song to a website I'm working on, which is simple enough, however I want to use a custom play/pause button of my own design rather than the stock control that appears automatically. Having a lot of trouble finding a clear answer to this, hopefully someone out there can help me out... thanks!

And just because, here's the little bit of code that is playing the song, in case that helps anyone at all....

Code:
<embed src="music/elTriste.mp3" hidden="false" autostart="true" loop="1"></embed>