Hm. Well here's how it's supposed to look:
But it appears you can't use images and this isn't really website stuff, it's just html.
Spent more like 2 hours and I'm just about done with this. You can try editing the code yourself.
The shadow you are looking for is:
Yeah, I'm about done with this, it isn't my style, I'm better at corporate websites.
-webkit-box-shadow: 0 1px 3px #333;
-moz-box-shadow: 0 1px 3px #333;
-o-box-shadow: 0 1px 3px #333;
box-shadow: 0 1px 3px #333;
Best of luck to you and your girlfriend, sorry I can't spend any more time on this, I have work to do.