Ok, it's relatively simple to do. Although I haven't loked at the source code I would do it like this.
<style>
a.Menlink {
width;100 /*Make this the max width you would like*/
filter:glow(color=darkred)
}
.MenuTable{
border-style:outset;
border-width:3;
border-color:red;
}
.MenuTd{
Border-top-style:solid;
border-top-width:1;
border-top-color:darkred;
}
</style>
<table bgcolor="#000000" class="MenuTable" border="0" cellpadding="1" cellspacing="2">
<tr>
<td><img src="bullet" /></td><td><a href="#" class="Menlink">Menu Link</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="MenuTd"><img src="bullet" /></td><td class="MenuTd"><a href="#" class="Menlink">Menu Link</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="MenuTd"><img src="bullet" /></td><td class="MenuTd"><a href="#" class="Menlink">Menu Link</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="MenuTd"><img src="bullet" /></td><td class="MenuTd"><a href="#" class="Menlink">Menu Link</a></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="MenuTd"><img src="bullet" /></td><td class="MenuTd"><a href="#" class="Menlink">Menu Link</a></td>
</tr>
</table>
I think that should do it. Make sure that the first table row doesn't have the MenuTd class assigned to it.